Hi, I have a dilemma :/, -__- Options

[lovelylilangelx0]

Hi tharrrr.

Okay, well, this is a drama kinda thing that actually happened before this summer started like around the end of the school year. (I'm going into my junior year of high school just to make things clear).

I'm not giving the whole story, I just need some opinions here.

Kay... so.

I have these two friends, right? And well, I considered them to be my best friends but then one got angry at me for assuming things too much. For example, there were times this one friend would not speak to me and she would be speaking fine with everyone else but ME. This happened quite a few times and she just got angry because I kept assuming she was angry at me and me only.

The other friend, well, she accused me of assuming as well. Also, she accused me of trying to be like the other girl I was talking about above. (She's a hypocrite :/) Like apparently, I was copying her taste in music and blah, blah, blah. Which, I was not. We both have similar tastes in music and I just can't help it if I like the same song as her or if she likes the same one as me.

But anyways... I'm sorry to have bored you with such foolish nonsense but, I'd like to know. Was I wrong to assume like that? I'd really like to know if I was because they stopped speaking to me completely because of this situation. And tell me what would make you stop speaking with one of your friends... is it as small as this?

[Noviwan]

ohohoho Girls these days. Even from one teenage girl to another they may be quick to anger and slow to try and understand. My friend stop talking to me when he said he was gay. He started hanging out with a different group. Then he tried to hit on me... he crossed the line. Well I cant really say how you could fix it but hopefully they will forget. Then you could be friends again. in order to stay friends with the girls I hung out with I stayed quiet and let them yell at me. When it came to mah bros we fought then laughed about it later.

[lovelylilangelx0]

ohohoho Girls these days. Even from one teenage girl to another they may be quick to anger and slow to try and understand. My friend stop talking to me when he said he was gay. He started hanging out with a different group. Then he tried to hit on me... he crossed the line. Well I cant really say how you could fix it but hopefully they will forget. Then you could be friends again. in order to stay friends with the girls I hung out with I stayed quiet and let them yell at me. When it came to mah bros we fought then laughed about it later.

I'm sorry to hear that. That's just way too... much. And, ahaha you got the right idea about staying quiet with girls. I go to an all girl's school which is horrible for me because I get along with guys better than girls. There's always too much drama. I was hoping they would forget too and they're pretty much over it now but I really don't believe I did anything wrong. even if we were to be friends again, I'm just hurt that it's not going to be the same as it was before but I can't do anything about it.

[Twilight Wandere...]

*sigh*

Other people are confusing. Sometimes all you can do in a relationship is assume, especially high school relationships because really, no one comes across as clear as they should.

Honestly... I've only known my two best friends for two years, and they're people I met on here... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/lalaexdee.gif)

But it feels like we've known each other forever. Which is why, you people that know me, I call Totoro nee-chan. Because she actually feels like my sister... I actually accidently led one family into believing that she was because I was always talking about her and saying "My sister... :3"

Sometimes we get annoyed with each other, but I don't think something as trivial as that would set us off.

So only if you want to keep those friends should you. If you have even a shread of doubt you should just cut the ties.

There are other fish in the sea. :3

[lovelylilangelx0]

*sigh*

Other people are confusing. Sometimes all you can do in a relationship is assume, especially high school relationships because really, no one comes across as clear as they should.

Honestly... I've only known my two best friends for two years, and they're people I met on here... (IMG:style_emoticons/default/lalaexdee.gif)

But it feels like we've known each other forever. Which is why, you people that know me, I call Totoro nee-chan. Because she actually feels like my sister... I actually accidently led one family into believing that she was because I was always talking about her and saying "My sister... :3"

Sometimes we get annoyed with each other, but I don't think something as trivial as that would set us off.

So only if you want to keep those friends should you. If you have even a shread of doubt you should just cut the ties.

There are other fish in the sea. :3

Aww, thanks sweetie <3

You made me feel a whole lot better. I was just about to say, that people on this forum are really unique, great people. I feel like a lot of people get caught up in high school drama. I try to stay out of it but it seems to follow me around like a rain cloud.

I'm happy you found a great friend on here and that you consider her your sister, that's really so wonderful! And that is how I thought of the situation, there may be things about me that would annoy them but there are things about them that annoy me as well and if I can live with it and love them for how they are, why can't they do the same?

I still want to be friends with the first one. The second one... not so sure. But, even if I let them in my life one more time and I do have another doubt... I will most definitely cut them out because I don't need that kind of crud in my life.

Thank you, Twilight Wanderer and Noviwan! :D

[IdlersDream]

How old are you?

Seriously, teenage girls are idiots and if they like getting mad at people for apparently "stealing their taste in music" {which btw, is the most immature thing I've heard recently and is impossible}, really, if they will get in a fight about thing that are apart of who you are as a person, they're not worth your friendship. Really, I wouldn't give them anymore of your time and find a new group of friends that don't start fights so easily. Just tell them to get more mature, they sound pathetic.

[lovelylilangelx0]

How old are you?

Seriously, teenage girls are idiots and if they like getting mad at people for apparently "stealing their taste in music" {which btw, is the most immature thing I've heard recently and is impossible}, really, if they will get in a fight about thing that are apart of who you are as a person, they're not worth your friendship. Really, I wouldn't give them anymore of your time and find a new group of friends that don't start fights so easily. Just tell them to get more mature, they sound pathetic.

I am sixteen :/

I felt the same way. It was kind of like I was in middle school again, fighting over the smallest things. And she didn't really think much of me copying her until the other girl told her I was. It is immature but I feel like she knows she made a mistake but just doesn't want to admit it. The other one who told her I was "copying" her, well she thinks she's right and nothing is gonna change her stubborn mind. I already started a new group of friends who are more reliable and are behind me 100%. They thought our drama was for fifth graders. Thanks for your input, it means a whole lot to me!