Hi, I have a dilemma :/, -__- |
Hi, I have a dilemma :/, -__- |
Aug 30 2010, 11:35 PM
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Member Group: Members Joined: 17-November 09 |
Hi tharrrr.
Okay, well, this is a drama kinda thing that actually happened before this summer started like around the end of the school year. (I'm going into my junior year of high school just to make things clear). I'm not giving the whole story, I just need some opinions here. Kay... so. I have these two friends, right? And well, I considered them to be my best friends but then one got angry at me for assuming things too much. For example, there were times this one friend would not speak to me and she would be speaking fine with everyone else but ME. This happened quite a few times and she just got angry because I kept assuming she was angry at me and me only. The other friend, well, she accused me of assuming as well. Also, she accused me of trying to be like the other girl I was talking about above. (She's a hypocrite :/) Like apparently, I was copying her taste in music and blah, blah, blah. Which, I was not. We both have similar tastes in music and I just can't help it if I like the same song as her or if she likes the same one as me. But anyways... I'm sorry to have bored you with such foolish nonsense but, I'd like to know. Was I wrong to assume like that? I'd really like to know if I was because they stopped speaking to me completely because of this situation. And tell me what would make you stop speaking with one of your friends... is it as small as this? |
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Aug 31 2010, 06:34 PM
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Tin Soldier Group: Veterans Joined: 1-September 08 |
How old are you?
Seriously, teenage girls are idiots and if they like getting mad at people for apparently "stealing their taste in music" {which btw, is the most immature thing I've heard recently and is impossible}, really, if they will get in a fight about thing that are apart of who you are as a person, they're not worth your friendship. Really, I wouldn't give them anymore of your time and find a new group of friends that don't start fights so easily. Just tell them to get more mature, they sound pathetic. |
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Aug 31 2010, 07:38 PM
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Member Group: Members Joined: 17-November 09 |
How old are you? Seriously, teenage girls are idiots and if they like getting mad at people for apparently "stealing their taste in music" {which btw, is the most immature thing I've heard recently and is impossible}, really, if they will get in a fight about thing that are apart of who you are as a person, they're not worth your friendship. Really, I wouldn't give them anymore of your time and find a new group of friends that don't start fights so easily. Just tell them to get more mature, they sound pathetic. I am sixteen :/ I felt the same way. It was kind of like I was in middle school again, fighting over the smallest things. And she didn't really think much of me copying her until the other girl told her I was. It is immature but I feel like she knows she made a mistake but just doesn't want to admit it. The other one who told her I was "copying" her, well she thinks she's right and nothing is gonna change her stubborn mind. I already started a new group of friends who are more reliable and are behind me 100%. They thought our drama was for fifth graders. Thanks for your input, it means a whole lot to me! |
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