ok ppl wont let me give them gifts at all the only ppl I can give gifts too are like eliza and vaughn....I cant give them to anyone else after year 1 some wouldnt let me give them stufff and some never have let me give them stuff, help?

Only suggestion I can give it to turn on your psp or ps1 and give Elli tons of orange cups.

If you don't talk to people for too long, they start feeling distant and won't accept gifts. So basically just talk to them for several days in a row and they'll eventually start accepting them again.

yea, usually you need to talk with them 3 days straight, without giving them any present, then on the 4th day, they'll accept it

I had the same problem. Make sure you're not doing anything to lower the town's affection for you. I'm not sure if it applies in IoH, I haven't wanted to risk finding out, but I know in HM: DS, I was throwing weeds on the ground. ._. It counted as littering, and was a surefire way to be disliked by every single townsfolk.

I have a few more questions...
1) how do I get to the goddess spring I have every bridge built but I cant find it.
2) how do I get the horse
3)Whats the order of the color of hearts

1. You find it just beside the church -Or a abandon building (if you haven't unlocked it yet.) You probably didn't so, you unlock it by trowing gifts in the Goddess Pond for a couple of day's and Nathan will arrive.

2. You get a horse by befriending Chan at 2 hearts ( is that it? The one that sells at the super market) You can give him gifts only Friday. (btw , he doesn't like fish)

3. Black,Purple,Blue,Green,Yellow,Orange,Red.

When you click on the bachelor or bachelorette some little hearts will always appear. It's more of like a "help" to guide you with your wooing. (Get it?)

I think it goes like this;

2 hearts=Purple
3/half=Blue
5=Green
6/half=Yellow
8=Orange
10=Red

Um yeah (IMG:style_emoticons/default/lalaexdee.gif) Hope this helps.

yup, for the harvest goddess pond its the only pond in the forest area, just throw something there and the goddess will appear before you.

for the horse, need to befriend with Chen, he loves noodles, and most of the homemade food. But I usually give him curry.
It will take awhile, but I'm sure by fall you'll get it.